Friday, August 23, 2013

10 meals every Myanmar traveler should try August 22, 2013 at 03:13PM

The tea leaf salad is delicious! It tastes like "yee sang" (without raw fish) tossed with belacan dressing.

via Facebook http://travel.cnn.com/myanmar-food-669416?iid=article_sidebar Rich, savory Burmese cuisine has been hidden away for half a century. That's about to change

Jerrick Lim's Birthday August 22, 2013 at 10:19AM



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Veronica Chiu's Birthday August 22, 2013 at 10:19AM



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Thursday, August 22, 2013

Tanya Thomas Vadaketh's Birthday August 21, 2013 at 10:30AM



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Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Amateur art buff finds £35 million head of Courbet masterpiece - Telegraph August 20, 2013 at 06:23PM

“(The Origin of the World) loses that kind of marvellous mystery and symbolism from the moment you stick a head on it – that’s why Courbet took it off,” he said.

via Facebook http://fw.to/C9ORoOi An amateur art buff has discovered what is claimed to be the previously unknown "head" of Gustave Courbet's most notorious work, The Origin of the World and has been told it is worth an estimated £35 million.

Europe's greatest museum treasures August 20, 2013 at 04:25PM

Quddus Chong, did we miss this "Olduvai stone chopping tool" in the British Museum?

via Facebook http://www.cnn.com/2013/08/16/travel/europes-greatest-museum-treasures/index.html?sr=sharebar_facebook The most extraordinary sights in European museums are not always what you think.

Karen Ng Boon Mei's Birthday August 20, 2013 at 10:22AM



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Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Immune system boost 'fights cancer' August 19, 2013 at 10:00PM



via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-23724220 A way of firing up the body's immune system in order to attack cancer has been discovered by US researchers.

Grace Yau Chooi Peng's Birthday August 19, 2013 at 10:17AM



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Monday, August 19, 2013

Brianne McWilliams's Birthday August 18, 2013 at 10:16AM



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Sunday, August 18, 2013

Liew Mun Kit's Birthday August 17, 2013 at 10:21AM



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Simon Seow's Birthday August 17, 2013 at 10:21AM



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Jmcch Chua's Birthday August 17, 2013 at 10:20AM



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Saturday, August 17, 2013

They risked their lives to stop Sars August 16, 2013 at 10:11AM

A tribute to the bus unsung heroes.

via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-23710697 Ten years ago, the world was in the grip of a crisis over the deadly virus Sars. But its impact would have been far more deadly had it not been for the courage of a handful of medical staff.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Facebook use 'undermines well-being' August 15, 2013 at 09:28AM



via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-23709009 Using Facebook erodes overall well-being and a sense of satisfaction with life among young adults, researchers at the University of Michigan say.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Here Are The 12 Most Expensive Countries For Overseas Students To Study In August 13, 2013 at 10:15PM

Surprisingly the UK does not top the chart.

via Facebook http://www.businessinsider.com/here-are-the-12-most-expensive-countries-for-overseas-students-to-study-in-2013-8 The U.S. is second.

Nazila Malekpour's Birthday August 13, 2013 at 02:07PM



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Saturday, August 10, 2013

Rene Tanberry's Birthday August 09, 2013 at 04:40PM



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Hans-Christian Rieger's Birthday August 09, 2013 at 04:40PM



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Why major in humanities? Not just for a good job — for a good life. August 09, 2013 at 03:12PM

"But true humanities students are exceptional because they have been, and are, engaged in the activity that Plato commends — seeking to But true humanities students are exceptional because they have been, and are, engaged in the activity that Plato commends — seeking to understand themselves and how they ought to lead their lives. themselves and how they ought to lead their lives."

via Facebook http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/why-major-in-humanities-not-just-for-a-good-job--for-a-good-life/2013/08/08/83bc2734-fed1-11e2-96a8-d3b921c0924a_story.html What a humanities major can bring.

Friday, August 09, 2013

Golden Retriever Champ: Probably the Happiest Dog In The World August 09, 2013 at 08:55AM

Some happy doggie moments.

via Facebook http://www.boredpanda.com/candince-and-champ-golden-retriever-dog-photography/ Candice Sedighan and her golden retriever Champ is what you can call a real dream team! 20-year-old photographer needs no other model when her dog has enough patience to sit still and pose even with a live butterfly on his nose. Candice got Champ from her dad back when she was 9, but it wasn't ...

Thursday, August 08, 2013

Jerry W.K. Loo's Birthday August 07, 2013 at 02:30PM



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Wednesday, August 07, 2013

Joey Koh's Birthday August 06, 2013 at 03:21PM



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Monday, August 05, 2013

Su Ching's Birthday August 04, 2013 at 01:43PM



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Friday, August 02, 2013

Dennis Lai's Birthday August 01, 2013 at 11:30AM



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Thursday, July 25, 2013

Why You Should Eat Breakfast And the Best Times for the Rest of the Day’s Meals | TIME.com July 24, 2013 at 03:35PM



via Facebook http://healthland.time.com/2013/07/23/why-you-should-eat-breakfast-and-the-best-times-for-the-rest-of-the-days-meals/ Keeping track of what you're supposed to eat to stay healthy can already be overwhelming, but it turns out that when you eat what can also be important for keeping your weight in control and for warding off chronic disease. It turns out mom was right -- you should eat breakfast.

How to Trick Your Brain to Create a New Healthy Habit July 24, 2013 at 03:21PM



via Facebook http://lifehac.kr/yYT75z4 Have you ever started a diet or exercise program but didn't stick with it? If you're like millions of other people, you've set out with the best intentions but failed to keep the momentum going. Here's why relying on motivation and willpower doesn't work (and what works instead).

Mimi De Jazz's Birthday July 24, 2013 at 10:12AM



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Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Ridha Khadher wins the Best Baguette in Paris competition July 24, 2013 at 12:30AM

Too far away from downtown for me to try.

via Facebook http://parisbymouth.com/2013-best-baguette-paris-winner-meilleur/ See all the top ten winners from the 2013 Grand Prix de la Baguette de la Ville de Paris.

China bans new government buildings July 23, 2013 at 01:12PM

China seems to be very obsessed with copying all the world famous architectures.

via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-23422985 China bans the construction of government buildings for five years as part of a crackdown on official corruption and waste, state media say.

Monday, July 22, 2013

Charlotte Lai's Birthday July 21, 2013 at 10:11AM



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Sunday, July 21, 2013

Aidil Rusli's Birthday July 20, 2013 at 10:11AM



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Cheong Sie Teng Alicia's Birthday July 20, 2013 at 10:11AM



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Darren Sze Hoong Teo's Birthday July 20, 2013 at 10:11AM



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Saturday, July 20, 2013

Norwegian woman who reported being raped in Dubai is jailed for 16 months July 19, 2013 at 11:52AM

This is totally unacceptable!

via Facebook http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2367152/Norwegian-woman-reported-raped-Dubai-jailed-16-months.html The 25-year-old Norwegian was in Dubai on a business trip when she was raped, but when she reported the assault to the local police, she was thrown in jail.

Ping Long's Birthday July 19, 2013 at 10:11AM



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Friday, July 19, 2013

Alberto's Night Club on Yelp July 18, 2013 at 10:58PM

Come prepared as a salsa dancer!

via Facebook http://www.yelp.com/biz/albertos-night-club-mountain-view?pt=quicktip&ref=fb&tip_id=EmJ8RZgxTZ1X69qfNLm60w Dance Clubs in Mountain View, CA

Bikram Yoga on Yelp July 18, 2013 at 11:43AM

This is a popular studio. Be sure to come in 30 minutes in advance!

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Thursday, July 18, 2013

What is the difference between common and civil law? July 17, 2013 at 05:48PM



via Facebook http://www.economist.com/blogs/economist-explains/2013/07/economist-explains-10?fsrc=scn%2Ffb%2Fwl%2Fbl%2Fee%2Fcommmoncivil ROYALISTS are eagerly awaiting the birth of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge’s first child. If a girl, she will be the first daughter to be able to accede to the...

Ee Lin's Birthday July 17, 2013 at 10:39AM



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Chia Eric's Birthday July 17, 2013 at 10:39AM



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Yunna Choi's Birthday July 17, 2013 at 10:39AM



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Taking Shakespeare to the battlefield July 17, 2013 at 09:40AM

Looking forward to see this live in Globe next weekend.

via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-23330703 Jason Caffrey watches a performance of William Shakespeare's Henry Vl plays - staged on the site of one of the bloodiest battles ever fought on English soil.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Aarti Dua's Birthday July 16, 2013 at 10:04AM



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Tuesday, July 16, 2013

What Is Nostalgia Good For? Quite a Bit, Research Shows July 15, 2013 at 10:25PM

“Nostalgia made me feel that my life had roots and continuity. It made me feel good about myself and my relationships. It provided a texture to my life and gave me strength to move forward.”

via Facebook http://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/09/science/what-is-nostalgia-good-for-quite-a-bit-research-shows.html?smid=fb-share Nostalgia, long considered a disorder, is now recognized to counteract loneliness, boredom and anxiety — making life seem more meaningful and death less frightening.

San Francisco Bay Area Earthquake Tracker | abc7news.com July 15, 2013 at 12:35PM

Anybody felt it? "3.4 July 15, 2013 12:02 p.m. -- 4 miles northeast of Alum Rock, California"

via Facebook http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/feature?section=news%2Flocal&id=6264412 >> Complete list of recent earthquake activity in the California/Nevada region >> Map of recent earthquake activity in the California/Nevada region

Monday, July 15, 2013

Yap Cam Yew's Birthday July 14, 2013 at 10:41AM



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Sunday, July 14, 2013

YanG- Chong's Birthday July 13, 2013 at 10:11AM



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Friday, July 12, 2013

A Refresher Course On The Difference Between The UK, Britain, England, And The British Isles July 11, 2013 at 08:17PM

This is quite funny!

via Facebook http://www.businessinsider.com/difference-between-uk-britain-and-england-2013-7 A video that explains the difference between the United Kingdom, Britain, England, the British Isles, and more.

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Put A Google Alert On Your Name - In Photos: 10 Incredibly Simple Things You Can Do To Protect... July 09, 2013 at 09:48PM



via Facebook http://onforb.es/16gx4pi This is an incredibly easy way to stay on top of what's being said about you online. It takes less than a minute to do. Go here: http://www.google.com/alerts and enter your name, and variations of your name, with quotation marks around it. Boom. You're done.

WanSiang Shue's Birthday July 09, 2013 at 10:12AM



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Active brain 'keeps dementia at bay' July 09, 2013 at 09:20AM



via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-23159127 Keeping the mind active preserves the health of the brain, even in old age, new research suggests.

Late nights 'sap kids' brain power' July 09, 2013 at 09:01AM



via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-23223751 Late nights and overly lax bedtime routines can blunt children's minds, a major British study concludes.

Tuesday, July 09, 2013

Clever Uses for Facebook Graph Search July 08, 2013 at 06:22PM



via Facebook http://lifehac.kr/sM4Whvn It's been several months since Facebook introduced Graph Search, and if you have it, you may be wondering what it's good for. The short answer: A lot of things! Here are some clever ways to make use of Graph Search if you already have it, and some reasons to sign up to get it if you don't have it al...

Happiness Facts and Fiction July 08, 2013 at 04:44PM

Life is short. Be happy, please!

via Facebook http://www.webmd.com/balance/guide/happiness-6-myths-and-truths WebMD debunks happiness myths including the belief that

I got 45/100 on this list: 100 Must-Eat American Foods. How many have you tried? July 08, 2013 at 04:36PM



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I got 38/83 on this list: 83 American Desserts. How many have you eaten? July 08, 2013 at 04:32PM



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Monday, July 08, 2013

Shrug like a Frenchman and frown like a Russian July 07, 2013 at 01:51PM

This kid is really quite a boast. While the Youtube video claims that he can speak 20 languages, in reality he is just comfortable with 4 to 5 languages and he is still learning the others. A lot of Malaysians (perhaps, the Europeans too) can speak comfortably in at least 3 to 4 languages. What is he singled out as a "prodigy"?

via Facebook http://www.economist.com/blogs/johnson/2013/07/teenage-hyperpolyglot-0?fsrc=scn%2Ffb%2Fwl%2Fbl%2Fshruglikeafrenchman TIMOTHY DONER looks like an ordinary American teenager. Medium-height and slight, he arrives in a grey T-shirt and jeans. As he is being miked for his interview, our...

Sunday, July 07, 2013

8 Ways To Boost Your Anti-Cancer Diet July 06, 2013 at 10:38PM



via Facebook http://m.huffpost.com/ca/entry/3542132/ By Marie Suszynski, Everyday Health

The New York Times July 06, 2013 at 12:45PM

Plane crash at San Francisco International Airport.

via Facebook http://www.facebook.com/nytimes/posts/10150318087349999 A Boeing 777 operated by the Korean airline Asiana crashed Saturday afternoon while landing at San Francisco International Airport: http://nyti.ms/15mZ0Jo The New York Times will report more information as it becomes available.

Saturday, July 06, 2013

Nitia Banogaran's Birthday July 06, 2013 at 04:11AM



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Mignion Lai's Birthday July 06, 2013 at 04:11AM



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Yvonne Lam's Birthday July 06, 2013 at 04:10AM



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Burma Superstar on Yelp July 05, 2013 at 05:12PM

We skipped the wait by lining up here before it is open.

via Facebook http://www.yelp.com/biz/burma-superstar-san-francisco?pt=quicktip&ref=fb&tip_id=6X_8B2vdGNuIDeKwLlT0cw Burmese in San Francisco, CA

Friday, July 05, 2013

Widefare July 04, 2013 at 06:13PM

Has this survey not further affirmed the problems in Malaysia? Middle-class Malaysians (mostly urbanites of a certain background) are so heavily taxed to substantially support a particular group of the government's discriminatory liking. "Malaysia, however, has achieved depth (spending 27% of per-person GDP on each beneficiary) without breadth (its efforts reached only 14% of potential beneficiaries for the year the index was calculated)."

via Facebook http://www.economist.com/news/asia/21580531-asias-emerging-welfare-states-spread-themselves-thinly-widefare THE welfare states pioneered in Europe and America are not universally admired in Asia. In 2001 Singapore’s then prime minister argued that handouts would result...

Thursday, July 04, 2013

BBC News - What has happened to the French joie de vivre? July 03, 2013 at 11:37PM

"The British, the Spanish, the Greeks are doing the same and hope to have the same results. Not so the French. They are still standing on the edge of the pool, dipping their toes in the water and wincing. Everyone knows that the combination of a short working week, early retirement, big pensions and excellent health benefits does not add up..."

via Facebook http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-22985889 World Affairs Editor John Simpson examines why the opinion polls show the French are particularly gloomy, compared with other Europeans?

Wednesday, July 03, 2013

Top 15 Healthy Foods for People with Kidney Disease - DaVita July 02, 2013 at 09:34PM



via Facebook http://shar.es/ArqRW It is important for people with chronic kidney disease (CKD) and people on dialysis to eat a kidney-friendly diet. Some of the healthiest foods for people with kidney disease on a renal diet or kidney diet are fruits and vegetables low in sodium, potassium and phosphorus.

Tuesday, July 02, 2013

Melaine Tan's Birthday July 02, 2013 at 05:12AM



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Sunday, June 30, 2013

Zoe Soke Yee Chan's Birthday June 30, 2013 at 04:17AM



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Merit Vegetarian on Yelp June 29, 2013 at 02:06PM

This is our top favorite vegan restaurant in Sunnyvale. Trying out rainbow salad and gourmet deluxe (vegan "beef") for the first time.

via Facebook http://www.yelp.com/biz/merit-vegetarian-sunnyvale?pt=quicktip&ref=fb&tip_id=CfohRUwn1ulKF8nCOWH1ww Vegetarian in Sunnyvale, CA

Friday, June 28, 2013

Peh KKew's Birthday June 28, 2013 at 04:08AM



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Thursday, June 27, 2013

Six Scientifically Supported Ways to Crush Procrastination June 26, 2013 at 08:31PM



via Facebook http://lifehacker.com/six-scientifically-supported-ways-to-crush-procrastinat-589722729?utm_campaign=socialflow_lifehacker_facebook&utm_source=lifehacker_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow Procrastination is something that everyone deals with. It’s hard to place too much blame on ourselves though, as the internet offers an unlimited amount of alternatives to doing our work. Since that’s the case, what are some proven ways to combat procrastination? Let’s take a look!

A Time to Marry in California June 26, 2013 at 05:19PM



via Facebook http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/newsdesk/2013/06/gay-marriage-time-to-marry-in-california.html Alex Solarte and his boyfriend had got engaged in 2008, right before Prop. 8, never believing it would pass. “I’ve been waiting five years for this!” ...

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Fabian Suy's Birthday June 26, 2013 at 04:33AM



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Why You're Not a Morning Person (and How to Become One) June 25, 2013 at 09:16PM

This advice seems to work but it will NEVER change the very nature of an owl like me if I stop practising all those habits!

via Facebook http://lifehacker.com/why-youre-not-a-morning-person-and-how-to-become-one-514388263?utm_campaign=socialflow_lifehacker_facebook&utm_source=lifehacker_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow At 6 AM, most of us are lucky if we have the energy to reach for a cup of coffee. Mornings may be rough, but hold off on sleeping in. There are perks to waking up with the sun, and we've got some tips on making it easier.

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Yadunanda Kumar Budigi's Birthday June 25, 2013 at 04:09AM



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Paris Food Guide June 24, 2013 at 11:13PM



via Facebook http://www.cntraveler.com/food/2012/07/paris-restaurants-food-guide-where-to-eat A guide to the best restaurants, bistros, and cafés in Paris including spots for cassoulet, steak frites, vegetarian food, and new cuisine.

The Best Ways to Apologize When You Screw Up At Work or At Home June 24, 2013 at 02:52PM

Probably not for those looking for face-saver.

via Facebook http://lifehacker.com/the-best-ways-to-apologize-when-you-screw-up-at-work-or-560654609?utm_campaign=socialflow_lifehacker_facebook&utm_source=lifehacker_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow After promising your boss you would complete an important assignment on time, you realize you're behind and it's going to be late. You unintentionally leave a colleague out of the loop on a joint project, causing him or her to feel frustrated and a bit betrayed. On the subway, you aren't paying atte...

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Sia Teng Teng's Birthday June 23, 2013 at 04:08AM



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Saturday, June 22, 2013

Kaushalya Rajathurai's Birthday June 22, 2013 at 04:08AM



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W for Wellbeing (wforwellbeing) June 21, 2013 at 09:41PM

How to survive smog and heat - this is dedicated to all my friends in Malaysia and Singapore.

via Facebook http://pinterest.com/pin/291537775848139902/ How to survive smog and heat

Friday, June 21, 2013

Life Below The City Of Light: Paris Underground : NPR June 20, 2013 at 12:19PM

"Paris, City of Light, really is a tale of two cities. One of them is above ground, with its beloved Eiffel Tower and Arc de Triomphe. That's the city the world sees. And then there's the city very few us will ever see — an underground Paris, the souterrain."

via Facebook http://www.npr.org/2011/01/30/133308592/parisunderground Paris really is a tale of two cities: One of them above ground, with its beloved Eiffel Tower and Notre Dame. And then there's the city very few us will ever see — an underground Paris — the souterrain. NPR and National Geographic team up to explore what lies below.

Rebooting Chinese history June 20, 2013 at 10:43AM

Perhaps an alternative history textbook should be introduced in Malaysia real soon.

via Facebook http://www.malaysia-today.net/mtcolumns/guest-columnists/57550-rebooting-chinese-history Malaysia Today. Independent News Portal in Malaysia. Read the latest news in the country covering issue on politics, business, lifestyle, community, and so much more.

The 4-Minute Workout June 20, 2013 at 10:26AM



via Facebook http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/06/19/the-4-minute-workout/?smid=fb-share A single, strenuous four-minute workout can effectively improve health and fitness as much as longer workouts can, researchers found. Download the “Well 4-Minute Workout” playlist for your workout.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Why Music Makes Our Brain Sing June 17, 2013 at 08:55PM



via Facebook http://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/09/opinion/sunday/why-music-makes-our-brain-sing.html?smid=fb-share When a song triggers both anticipation and reward, it moves us like nothing else.

9 habits that may do more harm than good June 17, 2013 at 06:58PM



via Facebook http://www.mnn.com/health/fitness-well-being/stories/9-habits-that-may-do-more-harm-than-good Discover which 'healthy' actions might be having a negative impact on your body.

Friday, June 14, 2013

From Croissant to Cronut June 13, 2013 at 02:09PM

Any "cronut' available around the Bay Area?

via Facebook http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2013/06/12/dining/from_croissant_to_cronut.html?smid=fb-nytimes&WT.z_sma=DI_FCT_20130612&_r=0 The Cronut is just the latest iteration of the croissant in the last 325 years or so.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Swimming and the Fear Factor June 11, 2013 at 04:55PM

I thank my mom for taking this survival skill as a priority when I was little.

via Facebook http://nyti.ms/13AdMLh With drowning a leading cause of death among children 1 to 19, learning to swim is more important to survival than anything a child learns in school.

Robberies of cashed-up Chinese tourists rise steeply in Paris June 11, 2013 at 04:41PM

I look Chinese but I am no Chinese with loads of cash in my purse...

via Facebook http://www.scmp.com/news/china/article/1249285/robberies-cashed-chinese-tourists-rise-steeply-paris Mainlanders' preference for carrying large amounts of cash makes them easy targets

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Dans Mon Couer

I dedicate my first French poem to him...

Le jazz romantique, grace a mes oreilles,
Le cafe latte, sur mes levres,
Le livre, sur mes mains,
Et toi j'adore, dans mon coeur.

~ Sylvia

Thursday, September 03, 2009

Damaged and Damaging


**WARNING: SPOILERS AHEAD!**

I was a college student when I inadvertently discovered "Damage" on British TV, a steamy romantic drama featuring a forbidden illicit affair between Stephen and Anna. Jeremy Irons plays Stephen, a self-controlled, successful, prim and proper English gentleman holding respectably high ministerial position in the cabinet. Juliette Binoche plays Anna, a damaging femme fatale who is subsequently engaged to Jeremy's son while initiating and pursuing her clandestine trysts with Jeremy.

(Interestingly, Deuteronomy 22:30 provides that "a man is not to marry his father's wife; he must not dishonour his father's bed." What about a father taking his son's fiancee? Anyway, there are a lot of similar stories in real life. During the Tang Dynasty of ancient China, there was young Empress Wu Zetian who was previously a concubine to Emperor Taizong and upon his death, a concubine to his successor Emperor Gaozong. In modern times, there is a suspicious case between Carla Bruni and the Enthovens. Not to mention certain cultures that approve such relationships, and generations of ordinary women in willing pursuit of such complication, if not the thrill.)

The accidental fall of her fiance from top to the ground floor, in the state of excruciating pain and shock witnessing the intense love-making between his dad and Anna, left an inexplicable impact on me ever since. It still stirs my emotions re-watching it after almost 10 years.

What strikes me most is the psychological state of Anna: what is in her mind? What is she up for? Love, lust, atonement or vindication?

Anna, albeit a pleasant looking lady, does not on first glance appear to meet a standard expectation of any typical seductress. Not really hot, sexy and voluptuous - a woman type deemed popular among most men; not the sweet and "kawai" (cutey in Japanese) which is generally well-liked among the Asian men. She is indeed an exquisite cold beauty, looking sullen and melancholic at most times. She always appears in deep thought, as if she is disturbed by a painfully inexplicable past. Perhaps this is the most mysterious and alluring type (very dangerous too) of a femme fatale. Being unpredictably secretive, she is also extremely selfish and egocentric in search for her next target with no mercy whatsoever. What she craves for is basically the spur moment of fanatic lust and passion. "Empathy" and "compassion" have no presence in her dictionary.

"Who cares about tomorrow; who cares about commitment. It has to be me; it has to be my pleasure only..."

At the end of the film, she just evicts her responsibility of her fiance's death altogether. She flees the "crime" scene going back to her former lover (who has possibly divorced his wife for her). Leaving behind a broken man who has lost everything: a seemingly happy family, a rising career, good reputation and his one and only son, gazing obsessively on a photo of her cold beauty...

How many lives has Anna damaged throughout her life till the end of the movie? Her own brother who commits suicide in desperation of his incestuous love, Stephen and his family (his wife, son, daughter and father-in-law) and her former lover and his family. At least 8 of them excluding the unknowns. Undoubtedly a real femme fatale.

I am not trying to pass any moral judgement on a character like Anna. Just wondering how would she not lose sleep over a sense of guilt for hurting so many souls? Does she believe in "karma"?

On a separate note, some critics liken the film to another classic erotic film "Last Tango in Paris". In my humble opinion, "Damage" probably better portrays the psychology of each character. At least I don't feel disturbed wondering why a sweet-looking babe would totally submit herself to an ugly old man who has nothing but a disposition for violence and perversion (my blog post on the above shall come later).

Friday, August 21, 2009

Some Thoughts on The Notebook


**WARNING: SPOILERS AHEAD!**

After years of waiting, I finally got to watch one of the most popular tear-jerks among the ladies (probably guys too, though most guys I know seem to shun the movie): The Notebook. It is based on a novel written by Nicholas Sparks, who was inspired by the true love story of his wife's grandparents.

Instead of just tears welling, I cried my heart all out.

Then I came across this article online. The author claims that the story is unrealistic, unfair to the guys, and corrupting the girls to cheat on their steady partners.

Does romantic drama really ruin our love lives? Is The Notebook a really bad example that over-emphasises the passion of love? Is it right to leave a good and steady partner for the pursuit of "true love"? But what is "true love" in the first place?

Though I cried my eyeballs for the movie, somehow I have to agree with the said article. In fact, the real tear-jerking scenes to me are: firstly on the part of Lon's love and acceptance over Allie's affair; secondly on the scene when elderly Allie regains her memory with the help of elderly Noah; and finally, on the scene where they rest in peace hand in hand (which is similar to a scene of an old and unknown couple in Titanic).

Yes, the love between Noah and Allie is probably great and romantic, but they only prove themselves in the end after going through all ups and downs together. All they have for the summer is not real love but mere limerence, which usually does not last very long when the reality kicks in. According to Wikipedia, limerence is "an involuntary cognitive and emotional state of intense romantic desire for another person...". The term is also used to describe "the ultimate, near-obsessional from of romantic love". What does two teenagers know about the meaning of true love? In fact they are not even very compatible to start with. They often fight for their differences, verbally and physically. While Noah is just a simple and soft-spoken country boy, feisty Allie comes from a well-to-do family and she is on her way for top education. That is so vividly depicted during their very first unsuccessful attempt for intimacy. Allie attempts to romanticise the sensational feeling with words but Noah is never so articulate.

OK, 7 years have passed. Does time does not mend a broken heart? The story goes on to say that Allie is in love again with Lon. Lon is almost a perfect guy every girl will dream of. He is smart, handsome and charming. Not a bum but a lawyer who is supposed to inherit his family' wealth one day. The best part is, he is loving and loyal to Allie too. He is willing to forgive and forget about how Allie cheats on him.

Now it comes the hardest decision ever, which guy would you ultimately choose given similar situation and based on all available information, barring all future unforeseeable changes of characters or circumstances?

Frankly speaking, if I were Allie, I would go for Lon. But then again, there is nothing right or wrong. I am just making a calculated decision.

Experience has it very clear not only for me, but many other girls too. Time not only mends a broken heart, it changes personalities and preferences too. You may not have the same passion for the same person. One may not appreciate a computer geek at her young age but she may end up loving and marrying one ultimately.

Allie's mother may be seen as "evil" (for some hopelessly romantic girls, perhaps) but it is all out of motherly love and protection for Allie. One of neighbours actually did something similar to separate her son and a "cougar" (many years older). The "cougar" was alleged to be not only seducing the son but eyeing his family wealth, with the aid of black magic. The mother had to send her son many thousand miles away from home for years. But now, I heard the son is happily married with another girl.

I think Allie has gambled her life off on the option that may offer the least probability of winning. Think about it. Yes, Noah is a gifted builder but he has no identifiable source of income. He seems to be easy to take on any woman available though he has no love for her.

Allie is a lucky girl. Everybody in the show loves Allie. It is great that Noah loves her enough to accept her spoiled character and work hard for the family. If Noah continued to be a bum or work in the factory, if they continued to fight due to any compatibilities, their relationship might be doomed. Just like any other financially-strained families. After the limerence inevitably dies off, all that is left in a marriage is bonding, relationship and responsibilities. Those elements require insurmontable effort, patience, and compromise to be built up, not mere limerence or hot sex for the moment. True love emerges at challenging times. That a couple stays together through all thick and thin.

So in the end, Allie and Noah got my eyes moist again.


Monday, May 25, 2009

Being Malaysian

I am a Malaysian by nationality, a Chinese by ethnicity. I belong to the 4th generation of Malaysian Chinese. I speak Hakka at home; I speak Cantonese and English to my mates; I speak Malay in court; I speak English at work.

At home, I have been raised with Chinese traditions. I celebrate Chinese New Year, Tomb Sweeping Festival, Mid Autumn Festival and even the “Dong Zhi (冬至)”, the day that signifies the arrival of winter, although Malaysia is a tropical country.

In faith, I am a Christian. I read the bible in English. I go for Sunday services, and I appreciate God’s messages that help to resolve various moral or existential issues in life.

At work, I am a corporate lawyer trained in the United Kingdom. I used to handle litigation matters in court in Malay language. After quitting litigation, I focused on corporate practice which required me to draft almost everything in English. Occasionally I had to assist my clients in drafting official letters in Malay.

Food is one of the greatest pleasures in life. Malaysian food is unique its own way, a harmonious fusion of multi-racial influences. I have “nasi lemak” (coconut rice) and “Nescafe tarik” (Malaysian-style coffee) in the morning; “char kway teow” (fried noodles) and Chinese tea for lunch; and roti canai (Indian-style pita bread) and teh tarik (Indian-style milk tea) for dinner.

When it comes to friendships, I am colour blind. I acknowledge our differences that make us special. Sometimes we laugh about the Malay’s laziness, the Chinese’s money face, and the Indian’s mouth. We also appreciate the Malay for being kind and thoughtful, the Chinese for working hard and the Indian for upholding justice. I have close friends from all races and religions. They all have helped me through all ups and downs of my life.

Malaysians, whatever ethnic groups we come from, are potentially the most adaptable people to take the title of “global citizens”. Way before the concept of globalization came into play. We speak multiple languages. We are exposed to a good diversity of cultures and background. We have learned to respect our racial differences and live in harmony, while ethnic cleansing takes place in other parts of the world. We are supposed to be special.

Our founding fathers were far-sighted to foresee this identity that makes us unique and united as a nation. Once upon a time, we even had a well-drafted constitution that upheld that vision - one nation, one Malaysian.

Unfortunately, it is all destroyed by one agenda within one decade.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

10 Bizarre Ways of City Life in Shanghai


Shanghai is a happening and well-developed metropolitan, and it is no exaggeration to name it "Paris of the East". I was amazed by its broad avenues and magnificent skyscrapers when I first arrived here. After living here for some time, I gradually acquire a unique living experience of Shanghai (and I am still enjoying it). I have been to many major cities in the world. None offers such tremendous degree of "cultural shock" more than Shanghai, despite the fact that I belong to the Chinese descent. Let's see how "civilized" are the people here beyond the facade of a glittering skyline:-

1. THE SPIT

You will be amazed by the ubiquitous presence of phlegm ("fresh" or "dried-up" - OK, I know it is gross!) in Shanghai, on the ground, from the mouth. It is a "signature" habit of the nation that unfortunately seems to define the Chinese race. No wonder spit pot (痰罐) is always a top essential household item in China. If they are out of home, everywhere outdoor can be their "spitting ground". One of the “survival skills” I have acquired is to stay alert and listen up: when you hear a gargling sound of “arghhhhhhh”, just divert and hop off the street! It is disgusting enough if it stains your pants, but it becomes disastrous if you catch the virus and thereafter suffer from THE PUSH and rush in a local hospital!

2. THE PUSH (or THE RUSH!)

Shanghai is notably one of the most populous cities in the world. The crowd is particularly humongous during the rush hours in the subway (METRO) stations. You are literally and helplessly pushed to the corner. The trains are always full and you are cramped as one of the poor sardines traveling to work everyday. I was once so amused to see a young, pretty and well-dressed lady rushing and pushing herself (with incredibly high agility) into the train seconds before the door was shut; the train left the station with her face all squeezed and distorted on the glass window! It is also not uncommon to see some METRO station staffs help pushing more people into a packed train. That somehow reminds me of how live chickens are transported from the farm to the city in a truck! Hence the people do not seem to understand the concepts of privacy and space. Even if there is space, they simply push you around whenever they walk pass you. Now I wonder whether they recognize the criminal concept of assault and sexual harassment...

3. THE TRAFFIC

The local drivers do not buy the concept of “pedestrian first”. They don’t care whether there are pedestrians crossing the road. They will honk all the way to get you off their way. All vehicles honk all day long, starting from 7am till 8pm. As my apartment is located near Pudong Avenue (浦东大道) and the Huangpu River (黄浦江), they wake me up on time to work without an alarm clock. They play their own traffic rules, by all means possible.


4. THE WAIT

If you wish to frequent a popular place, this is what I would advise you: (i) be patient, if you have plenty of time and choose to be a gentleman; or (ii) be aggressive, if you are in a rush and don't mind to be a barbarian! In a restaurant, either there is a long queue or the food is served late. As a gentleman, you can prompt the waiters many times to get what you want but you just have to wait. Otherwise, just do up a scene of barbarian acts and they will attend to you immediately. In a local hospital, you need to be alert in the queue or someone will jump the queue and take away your long- waiting position. Is the huge population of Shanghai attributable to its?

5. THE FIGHT

For first-timer in Shanghai, you may wonder why people seems to enjoy quarreling in the public. Well, that is not quite true. When the local people converse in Shanghai dialect (上海话), somehow they phonically sounds like they are fighting! They are loud, quick and assertive, especially the senior ladies. My observations of their speech mannerism are: the young babes are sulky and imperious; the middle-aged women are proud and defensive; the senior "aunties" (a Malaysian reference of older ladies) are loud, pushy and domineering! This observation is affirmed by some of my local Chinese male friends here.

6. THE SERVICE

A lot of the employees you meet in the retail stores or restaurants are rude, defensive and opinionated. The rude - they ignore you when you ask for services; they treat you like a moron when you ask for direction in Mandarin (and look Chinese - they probably look down on country pumpkins who do not speak Shanghainese!) The defensive - when you complain about bad customer service, they will immediately cover their ass with every excuse under the sun. The opinionated - if they notice that you are holding on to a S-sized shirt, they may grab it away and tell you that you cannot fit (I know my body better)! This is, based on what I heard from the local, "by default" the way they behave unless the management has specifically trained them to please the customers.

7. THE CON MEN

Beware of the con men! They are just too many smart, cunning and unscrupulous people here who will strive to get every penny out of your pocket. The not-so-smart ones are the pickpockets, usually found in the crowded METRO stations. The professional con men come out with ingenious schemes to trap and entice you to part with your money voluntarily; or they will overwhelm you with all information that clouts your judgment. I was almost trapped here once. My strategy? Hear no evil see no evil. Just say no to everything, or pretend to speak no Mandarin.

8. THE SMELL

There is one common trait of all China Towns (唐人街)in the world - they all smell "Char Siew" (叉烧 - roast pork, a Cantonese delicacy) to me! Similar aroma (or stench, depending on whether you like it or not) permeates and pass through almost everywhere in Shanghai. My sensitive nose sometimes detects it from the people in the train or elevator too! If you do not fancy the smell, you may consider seeking your sanctuary in pubs or cafes where the fragrance of alcohol or coffee dominating. Shanghai does not offer only Char Siew but Chinese food of all streams. I wonder which Chinese favourite ingredient producing the aroma. Is that the pork?

9. THE FAKE

This is everywhere in China, not only in Shanghai. Even Celine Dion is a fan of fake luxury goods. Even if they don't make counterfeits, they use a logo or trademark which is substantially similar to any well-known international brand. In the hope of lucrative profits by confusing the public (but I thought Shanghai people are shrewd?!) and relating themselves to the big brands perhaps? Passing-off does not seem to be a legal concept that bothers the businessmen here. Even Li Ning (李宁), a Olympian-gymnast-turn-businessman copies the "swoosh" of Nike to sell his sports garments!

10. THE PARADOX

It is interesting to read harsh, critical, and judgmental comments in the local media that demonize the West. For historical events, they typically blame the West for cheating the Chinese by taking possession of the Bund (外滩) in the late 19th century. In terms of current affairs, they always claim that the West has evil agenda to jeopardize the Chinese in many ways. Paradoxically, the people here revere the West a great deal! If it is bad enough in Kuala Lumpur, it is worse in Shanghai. My landlady brags about her kids working for American companies; some of my local colleagues show off their foreign branded goods (probably made in China); some local girls fight to date the white men. According to my Shanghainese friend, if you wish to get VIP customer services, you must speak to the sales person in English!

I will share each of the above items separately in the future. Having said all the above, I must also praise the Shanghai people for acknowledging their problems; and they are now working very hard to improve everything about the city in preparation for EXPO 2010. Certainly there are great things about Shanghai too. Just stay tune ya!

Sunday, February 01, 2009

So Close ("Enchanted" Movie Soundtrack)

You're in my arms
And all the world is calm
The music playing on for only two
So close together
And when I'm with you
So close to feeling alive

A life goes by
Romantic dreams must die
So I bid mine goodbye and never knew
So close was waiting, waiting here with you
And now forever I know
All that I wanted to hold you
So close

So close to reaching that famous happy end
Almost believing this was not pretend
Now you're beside me and look how far we've come
So far we are so close

How could I face the faceless days
If I should lose you now?
We're so close
To reaching that famous happy end
Almost believing this was not pretend
Let's go on dreaming for we know we are
So close So close
And still so far